Over the past few years, podcasting health guru, “wellness bro,” and Stanford neuroscientist Andrew Huberman has gained a devoted following — even earning him the nickname “Daddy Huberman” on TikTok. His disciples range from the health-obsessed to the casual millennial contemplating drinking more water. His platform is his podcast, the “Huberman Lab” (5+ million subscribers), where the two-hour episodes sound like a college science class and give listeners a plethora of “protocols” to live healthier — from “get more sunlight” to “eat kiwis before bed.” Instead of being a regular wellness influencer, Huberman’s appeal is that he’s a credentialed and thoughtful scientist.

But this week, a New York magazine profile called into question his academic and personal integrity, reporting that Huberman engaged in manipulative and coercive behavior with five of his ex-girlfriends, whom he dated…at the same time. Of course, the internet had its thoughts (this creator said it best). Some in the wellness space were quick to point out that the infidelity and just plain bizarre behavior (like ghosting research partners) aren’t signs of a man who’s achieved optimal well-being. Though, his numerous defenders argued you do have to be high-functioning to maintain that number of relationships and called the piece a hit job. Worth noting: It’s not the first time Huberman has been criticized. He’s previously been accused of cherry-picking data and peddling a wild stack of supplements. But what this cover story really did was question the value of trusting any wellness guru, whether that’s Gwyneth Paltrow, Meghan Markle (see: her rumored product launches), Joe Rogan (please, no), or Huberman. Particularly since, at the end of the day, they’re humans.