When you can look beneath their behavior that hurt you, John, and you can see the frightened child, it becomes nearly impossible to be angry or carry a grudge.

And you so can. 

ILY, 
   The Universe
John, anyone can heal anything, and it always starts from within...

Thoughts become things... choose the good ones! ®
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Besides, John, your happiness, abundance, health, and friendships are not dependent on how others behave.
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