The difference between how you sometimes see yourself, John, and how I see you, could be summed up like this: 

You wonder, at times, what it is you might do that you'd be wildly successful at. 

And I wonder, at times, how you seem to miss that you already are. 

Crazy wild -

   The Universe

John, does your heart have space for new friends? Your calendar have time for exotic travel? Your hard drive have gigs for pics and videos? AND... do you have four blank passport pages?

But then, I know the difference your life is making, John.