Insightful Questions From A New OEFT Member
"As Advanced Lessons 3 and 4 emphasize, specific events often have other aspects and related/foundational issues that show up as you clear things. This is normal and you will learn this deeply as you progress.
Hi Members,
Just thought you might find useful this correspondence between Diane Gallegos and me. My responses to her questions are in red.
e-hugs, Gary
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Hi Gary,
I am a Newbie!!! I have been at this about a week - OEFT. I am going through the lessons as READ THIS FIRST instructs and working on issues.
Great. Please be sure to refer back to the instructions frequently. It’s easy to miss important features if you don’t.
I have noticed as I work on issues that other issues come up (GOOD)! Yes… GOOD… it means you are learning to listen to The Unseen Therapist. I may be at at 10 on the specific issue I am working on and as I am asking the Holy Spirit (my name for the Unseen Therapist) to bring past issues up. I write those down. Sometimes, it seems, I can only clear to a 6 or so and the other issue keeps intruding so I work on that to see if it will bring the other one down - sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't. As Advanced Lessons 3 and 4 emphasize, specific events often have other aspects and related/foundational issues that show up as you clear things. This is normal and you will learn this deeply as you progress. Most EFTers don’t get this vital point and, as a result, cannot be as thorough as you are learning here.
I am not sure if that is an ok way to proceed. I have found that I seem to get to about 3 on most things (maybe I don't know what 0 is?). Many people don’t know what a 0 is because they have never been there. That’s OK. The net result is more personal peace and the more you practice the more peace you will develop. I have tested several of the ones that I have worked on and found that they are not "cleared" and will go back on work on those. I wonder if I am doing too many at once and is that possible? You may be trying to go too fast. Remember, the quickest way to get results is to do the Immerse-ucation process THOROUGHLY.
There were some issues from my childhood that I thought were a 4 or so but when I started working on other things I became very emotional about them and realized they were suppressed 10's. This happens quite a bit. It’s good that they show up, even though it may be uncomfortable. Better to have them show up so you can address them rather than have them lurking under the surface and out of your awareness.
Then there are some things that come up that are only, maybe a 2-3 and since they come up I work on them but they don't seem to change (they may be 0's, no real emotion about them but I label them a 2 or why did they come up?). Best to be thorough and work on these “smaller” ones. No telling what you might find.
Looking forward to your direction!
I was on the Webinar and enjoyed it very much! Thank you for your time,
Dianne Gallegos
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