MAY 4, 2022 • VOL. 20 ISSUE 18 | | Hi John, While Crucial Conversations skills greatly increase your ability to help others feel safe to hear your perspective and share theirs, they can't guarantee this result. Today's Q&A gets into the logic of psychological safety. Also, enter to win an on-demand course by simply leaving a Google review of our content and courses. We'd really appreciate it! Details below.
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WHO'S RESPONSIBLE FOR PSYCHOLOGICAL SAFETY IN A CRUCIAL CONVERSATION? | by Joseph Grenny |
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Recently I was teaching Crucial Conversations to a group and we were practicing how to establish psychological safety when one of the learners asked, “What should you do if you don’t feel safe during a conversation?” I muddled through a response but I’m not sure I really answered the question. The course teaches us how to help others feel psychologically safe during a Crucial Conversation, but what should you do if you feel psychologically unsafe? Signed, Unsure |
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The answer is as simple as it is challenging: You are responsible for your own safety. I’ve learned as much from Ron McMillan (my co-author and long-time business partner) as from any other single person about what healthy communication looks like. One striking moment was during a high-stakes negotiation. Ron and I had gone through three rounds in an effort to strike a deal with the CEO of a partner organization. Each time we proposed a deal, the CEO would begin the next meeting with a substantially lower offer. By the fourth meeting I was about to blow. | |
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| HOW TO HAVE A RESPECTFUL DISAGREEMENT | Disagreement isn’t a bad thing, and in fact can be very fruitful. The key is to do it in a way where you don’t become disagreeable. Here’s how. |
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