| NOVEMBER 17, 2021 • VOL. 19 ISSUE 46 | | | Hi John,
In today's newsletter you'll find tips on how to disagree over vaccines and mandates, how to respond to unconscious bias, and a short spotlight on Priya Parker, author of The Art of Gathering and a BIG Idea speaker at our upcoming REACH conference.
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| | CRUCIAL CONVERSATIONS FOR MASTERING DIALOGUE
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| VACCINES, MANDATES, AND DISAGREEMENT
| | by Justin Hale and Ryan Trimble |
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| I have a close friend who recently told me their views on vaccines, mandates, and masks, and now I see them differently. They were vocal and opinionated. I would be lying if I said it hasn’t affected our interactions. I really like my friend, but I feel they aren’t being reasonable or rational on this topic. And every time I think about talking with them, I get annoyed and irritated. What can I do?
Signed,
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| Dear Vaccine Vexed,
You can always say nothing. Just because you disagree doesn’t mean you need to vocalize that disagreement. If you’re feeling irritated, changing the story you tell yourself is a more effective antidote than trying to change your friend, which I'll expound on below.
But if you feel you must speak up, here is a principle I want you to consider: how you talk about a difficult issue is more important than getting others to agree with you on the issue. If you understand and live by this principle, you can find understanding and connection no matter the topic; sometimes you can even find agreement.
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| | | REACH 2022 | | PRIYA PARKER, KEYNOTE SPEAKER AT REACH 2022
| | Priya Parker is a facilitator, advisor, author of The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why it Matters, and the host of the New York Times podcast, Together Apart. For 15 years she has helped leaders and communities hold difficult conversations about community and identity during moments of transition. Parker has extensive training in conflict resolution and has worked on race relations on American campuses and on peace processes in the Arab world, southern Africa, and India. Join her and other luminaries at REACH 2022. | | | |
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| | | | | HOW TO ADDRESS UNCONSCIOUS BIAS
| | Educators on unconscious bias explain that bias isn't something you root out; it's something you acknowledge and respond to. This one minute video offers two tips to help you acknowledge and respond to unconscious bias.
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| | | | | ELLE: THE BILLION DOLLAR QUESTION
| | Why can’t the military fix its violence against women problem? Congress is about to implement the biggest shift in military policy since the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell. Will it be enough to change the culture?
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| | | NOVEMBER 29–DECEMBER 3
| | CRUCIAL CONVERSATIONS FOR MASTERING DIALOGUE
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Resolve conflict. Speak your mind truthfully and tactfully. Reach alignment when stakes are high and opinions vary. Navigate the most important interactions at home and work. | | | |
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| | | | | If someone succeeds in provoking you, realize that your mind is complicit in the provocation. | | | | | |
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