You may feel insecure today, which could lead you to act aggressive or controlling in an effort to feel more in control of your life. You may find it helpful to spend some time alone, affirming that you are truly only in control of your own moods and mind-set. Since your own attitude also influences the things that happen to you, you can work on adopting an optimistic mind-set and build up your inner confidence and courage. You will then begin to feel more in control and develop an inner sense of security that will calm you in any situation. Instead of trying to control situations that make you feel uncomfortable or unsettled today, you can simply choose the right reaction to effectively deal with them.

Developing our inner confidence and security helps us feel more in control of our lives and gives us the strength to overcome any challenge. Our feelings of insecurity often result from the belief that we have no control over our circumstances, and we try to gain control by being aggressive or rigid. If we instead choose to build up our inner confidence and courage, we suddenly feel more empowered in any situation. We realize that while we are not in control of every situation, we are at least in control of our own mind-set, and we have the power to deal with anything that happens in our lives. Your insecurities will vanish as you focus on building up your confidence and inner strength today.